ELEMENTS OF A SESSION by Ms.C. A domination session must be organized and carried out in proper sequence to be a pleasure for both Domina and slave. I have certain elements I try to include in all My sessions, whether brief or extended. All are necessary, but the extent and severity varies according to the personality, needs and tolerances of the individual slaves. I never take a slave for a session without knowing a lot about him. Either he is someone I have been training before, or we have discussed, at length, what his needs, desires, and experience are.. and especially, what his limits are. he has been informed that the session will fit MY needs, but if he is a good little slave, it may include his fantasies, too. I never allow a slave to remain in masculine clothing. So the first order of business is to take off his clothing. he must do this in front of Me. I've never believed in privacy for a slave. When he is nude, we begin the introductory phase. If a slave is coming for overnight or longer, this involves a long, humiliating physical examination. his temperature is taken rectally. I check out his whole body minutely, usually with him in some sort of bondage. My most experienced slaves are required to submit without bondage and without moving. Even if the slave is in for only a few hours, there is always some physical examination. And, there is also always an introductory period when he is kneeling, nose touching the floor, with his hands either fastened behind his back or at least crossed there. A very amusing thing is to require a slave to crawl in this fashion, nose touching the floor. Without the hands to help, most have a very difficult time. The key to all this is control. I must have absolute control of the slave. he must not question My actions, must not even speak unless given permission. The examination is part of the process of establishing control. There is usually bondage in use while this is in progress. And only the most experienced slave escapes some form of punishment during the examination. With some slaves, I simply begin with 10 or 20 whacks with a paddle as an introduction to what to expect if they do not behave - simply as a warning. With a new slave, and even with the most experienced slave, there is a very critical test that comes next. they already have on a collar and leash. they are now blindfolded and are trained to follow their Mistress without question, without hesitation, and without seeing where She is taking them. I use a riding crop to make certain that they do so. This does a great deal to establish the principle of blind obedience for My slaves -- literally! After this, if a slave is in for a weekend or longer, he must undergo a series of enemas (a cleansing process), plus a series of herbal drinks (a purifying process). But with shorter term sessions there may be only one enema and, possibly a herbal drink, but not necessarily either. I simply love the next part. The slave is put in bondage. More often than not, I spreadeagle him on his back. Then I begin to tickle, to pinch, to brush his penis and testicles with nylon...to both torment and arouse him at the same time. I pinch his nipples. I squeeze his balls. I grab his cock and make him come erect. I pluck pubic hairs. Throughout all of this, he must not climax. I explain to him that if he climaxes, he will immediately be punished severely and the session ends. For most slaves, at this point comes a dress-up and play time. he is put into feminine attire or into diapers and baby clothing. he is a baby, a toddler, a little girl, a maid, a streetwalker -- whatever suits My fancy or, perhaps, his fantasies. This is not a half-hearted thing. I expect the slave to try to get into the role, totally. I use extensive makeup, wigs, the works, with feminine roles. A baby must wet his diaper, talk baby-talk, and so on. Then comes the most painful and embarrassing part of the session. If he is in diapers, he must be checked periodically to see if he has wet or stained his diapers. I never let a slave go to the bathroom alone. he must be supervised and have his bottom wiped by a Domina. I train my slave in obedience, using a series of commands or even just hand signals. they learn to obey. When I point to the corner of the room, you should see one crawl there as fast as he can and kneel in the corner. Or when I point to My buttocks, you should see the haste with which the slave comes and begins to kiss My ass. This kind of obedience doesn't come easy. There is a great deal of pulling up the skirts and pulling down panties for a good beating before a slave can totally master all My requirements. I use enemas on them regularly, both in the cleansing process and in training. I actually have trained some of My regular slaves to hold rather large enemas for long periods, even perform chores while holding an enema. they know the price of failure. I also use the confessional as a method of instilling respect. The slave may spend 15 minutes, even a half hour, nose to the floor, telling me what he has done wrong in the time between sessions and how worthless he is. It is a bit like brainwashing process. they are punished for misdeeds, but they are also punished for not confessing. It is, of course, the typical no-win situation you envision for a slave. A new slave can come out of this part of the session eager for punishment, anything to get out of the confessional. Finally, if he has been good and really made an effort to behave himself, the slave gets a chance to climax. But doing so is never a simple thing for him. Sometimes I put clothespins on his nipples while he masturbates. Sometimes I put him into the bathtub with his feet up the wall, so that his semen will spurt out into his face. I have even been known to tie a slave's hands behind his back and place his penis ever so gently between the lid and base of the toilet seat and make him pull himself off that way. It doesn't help their morale when I threaten to sit down on the seat if they don't hurry up and climax. Finally, there is a clean-up time. The slave must clean up My apartment, taking care of everything involved in the session... and whatever else I see fit to suggest. The last formal part of the session is a few minutes with the slave on his knees, nose to the floor, while his Mistress summarizes Her opinion of his performance. he must then change clothing and dress in front or Me. he can converse freely at this point. This is the only time during the session that the slave is permitted to talk without being given permission. Most of My slaves leave, if not happy, at least content; as though they had been through a very successful session of psychotherapy which got to the roots of some of their problems. When people ask me what I do, I tell them I am a behavioral consultant.